Happy almost Christmas Eve, my love!
Let’s talk that ‘new year, new you’ thing.
We all get excited about the possibility of shifting into the new year around this time. Yet most of us fall flat when we try to go for it.
And at this point we already see how that concept might be flawed and setting us up for failure from the beginning.
🌀 But let’s look at it from another angle.
For instance, do you have your resolutions yet?
I hadn’t been creating any for the last few years, yet I do set goals.
👉🏼 Now, what is the most supportive thing I can do for those goals?
To take action on them as the year develops, ya?
Yet, some of the long standing goals OR some goals that are brand new and seem too far fetched, will be hard to be backed up by my actions if I am still being the person who has never experienced those goals.
Meaning if I continue to be my lovely self as of today, most likely I won’t be taking the actions. The person I am today is NOT the one that has those goals checked, is it?
So the question becomes:
Who do I need to be in the new year to actually take the action?
Going on a deeper layer:
Who do I *want* to be?
Because we can put all the effort into becoming who we need to be for the goals and experiences we want but at the end of the day end up still longing for a version of us that lives within but hadn’t been out yet.
Because she isn’t practical. She is not the ‘doer’ per se.
Example 👉🏼 the one that ‘be’ within a softer life gets shut down by the one who gets to ‘be’ the always expanding biz owner.
🗓️And so as you wrap up this calendar year, my love, I invite you to look at and prepare for your next year with those lenses:
🌷resolutions? to continue being your awesome self and adjust and tweak as needed
🌷goals? yes, the ones that truly resonate with you
🌷and to achieve them? for that, become the one that naturally takes action towards those goals {the “adjust-as-needed” from the first item}
🌷yet to feel the fulfillment? become the one you *want* to be, not just the one you need to
👉🏼 Fun part is that if your goals are really a reflection of your core desires, becoming who you want by default will bring forth the one you need to be. 🤩
Get that pen and paper rolling, love! There’s a lot that gets uncovered when we sort thorough those items. 💓
Now, if you celebrate — merry Christmas, happy holidays and happy festivities, my pumpkin! ✨🎉
Many Smooches,
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